Gender roles surround us wherever we go. They are seen in
products from when you are a baby all the way through adulthood and are trying
to look “sexy.” And as teens we are stuck right in the middle of having people
do everything for us and having to do everything for ourselves. Teen girls are misled
to think that they have to uphold a certain body image to look pretty.
In the
documentary “Missrepresentation”, they talk about how the media has pretty much
depreciated the role of women in society. A lot of movies and television shows today
do not have high powered female characters. And in the documentary the really point
out the fact that most women in the media are used for a sexual appeal to
audiences. And I think they did a good job making their point. I think that
girls do try to conform and make their bodies look like celebrities and models.
And media definitely provokes those thoughts.
What I don’t
like about this film is that they don’t show many girls that look up to
celebrities that don’t portray that body image. There are tons of movie and television
stars that try to send the opposite message out, telling us that healthy is
beautiful; not skinny. I know they didn’t put it in because it would have
refuted their claim, but I just think that they made this issue seem like every
girl that watches movies and wants to be skinny is going to end up unhealthy
and controlled by men.
“You can’t be
what you can’t see.” –Edelman
The above quote
gives me mixed feelings. Sure, I agree that if you don’t see something or aren’t
told about something then you aren’t going to know that it even exists. In this
film it was used in the context of not seeing many high powered women
(congress, doctors, etc.) in the media. And that is where I start to disagree
with this statement. There are a lot of women in the media that make a difference
in thousands of people’s lives. Also, seeing is not believing. In our grandparent’s
time, who would have ever thought that we would have an African-American
president? Probably no one. So you can’t say that just because there are a lot
of women seen as sex objects in the media, that all girls will succumb to that
lifestyle.
Body image is probably one of the
most talked about things for women. And although, media doesn’t help anyone
feel better about themselves, we just have to remember that we are great the way
we are. Most of the images we see are computer enhanced and it’s not healthy to
be the way they want us to be. So just live your life how you want to and don’t
worry about what other people think about you.
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